as usual, Mr.Big still big. i used to fall for this guy. yeah, i love such charming guy who never raise his voice whenever he talks. but what really caught ny attention is how he handles carrie kissing her ex on her visit to abu darbi. he was so cool. remind me alot of 'Men from Mars and Women from Venus'. well it said that guy need his own cave to calm down. you just have to give him some space to hide away for a while to think. you don't have to force him or whatever. when the right time comes, he'll come back to you. and yes, Big come back with a black diamond ring to seal the deal of marriage on carrie's finger. oh...i just love this guy.
this movie shows the real pros and cons of being single, married and having a family with kids. it's up to us to decide which path we weould like to choose. i know we can't resemble our life with samantha's life. she is one of a horny single woman. but who cares. all of us need sex to stay alive. you know what i mean. doesn't matter whether you're a girl or a guy. sex is another name of pleasure and we need it. if you don't believe me, feel free to ask all the married people out ther what it feels like to have sex every single night.;p and when you move to a married life like carrie, there's a lot to commit for the sake of happiness. but don't you ever dare forgetting your vow. everyone is worry that life won't be the same as when you're dating each other. but who cares. this is what you want. so you have to deal with it. you have to find something that can get the spark back. i love the 'spark' thing. remind me of D.D when he said that whenever he saw me, he can feel the spark. haha...too bad i don't feel it too. and when you have kids, another things come. charlotte is crying in her own kitchen because she sometimes can't stand her own kids. look, who can handle a crying baby. not me. yeah, i can't stand it. but i do love kids. yeah, i love kids. only they not so fond of me...:( i'm just keeping my fingers cross that when my time is come, i'll be able to handle whatever come what may. yeah, i'm serious. like he once said to me 'i'm a grown up. i can take care of myself'. the real question is 'am i?'
ever thine
ever mine
ever ours
-beethoven
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